Sunday, January 22, 2023

New Guidelines for Kids with Obesity: What Parents Should Know

Written by Debbie Koenig

Jan. 13, 2023 -- The American Academy of Pediatrics last week issued their first new guidelines in 15 years for evaluating and treating kids and adolescents with overweight or obesity.

If you only saw the headlines, you might think that when a youngster is a few pounds overweight, their pediatrician will prescribe a weight loss drug or bariatric surgery. The reality is much less alarming. The guidelines take a deep dive into evidence-based treatments at various levels.

“It's a misunderstanding, it's being sensationalized,” says Lori Fishman, PsyD, a child psychologist who specializes in pediatric weight management. “There's so much more to the process. It'll be a small percentage of kids who'll even qualify for these treatments.”

Treating the Whole Child

Before writing the guidelines, the AAP's Subcommittee on Obesity spent years analyzing and synthesizing information from nearly 400 studies.

“We now have more information than ever that supports that obesity is a chronic, complex disease that requires a whole-child approach,” says Sarah Hampl, MD, one of two lead authors of the guidelines. “And many kids will not outgrow it, so it's important to identify children with obesity early and offer them evidence-based treatments.”



In the new guidelines, treatment of overweight and obesity doesn't mean putting a kid on a diet and expecting their parents to manage it. Instead, multi-pronged approaches might include nutrition support, physical activity specialists, behavioral therapy, medications for adolescents 12 and up, and surgery for teenagers with severe obesity.

Before starting any of these evidence-based treatments, the guidelines remind pediatricians to consider each child's individual circumstances -- their living situation, their access to healthy food, and more.

“As pediatricians, we ought to be especially mindful of the influences that child and family are surrounded by,” Hampl says. “We should help guide them, whether it's to local resources for healthy food or support for a child who's being bullied.”

Because obesity is often stigmatized, the pediatricians' group also included guidance for pediatricians to help them examine their own biases. It calls on them to acknowledge the myriad genetic and environmental factors that contribute to obesity and treat children and their parents with respect and sensitivity.

The Rise of Childhood Obesity

For kids 2-18, obesity is defined as having a BMI at or above the 95th percentile for a child's age and sex. Rates of pediatric obesity have more than tripled since the 1960s, from 5% to nearly 20%. Just last month, the CDC released updated growth charts to take into account how many more children and adolescents now have severe obesity, well beyond the 95th percentile. By 2018, more than 4.5 million kids qualified, but the old charts didn't go high enough.

If these trends continue, researchers estimate that 57% of children aged 2 to 19 will have obesity by the time they hit 35. And the pandemic has only made things worse.

“It's about much more than what we eat and drink or how physically active we are,” Hampl says. Risk factors for obesity include genetics, socio-economics, race and ethnicity, government policies, a child's environment, neighborhood, and school, and even their exposure to unhealthy food marketing. Because each child is so different, these factors combine in unique ways.

You can see an example of the variability in Jill's family. She's a New Jersey mom with two teenage sons. For privacy reasons, we're using only her first name.

“I have two children who I raised the same way, who were offered the same foods, and yet one weighs 80 pounds more than the other,” she says. “My 16-year-old is happy to choose fruit over a cookie. He's able to stop, to not eat another bite. The 14-year-old will eat cookies until they're gone.”

No More Watch and Wait

The last set of guidelines, from 2007, called for pediatricians to monitor kids with obesity via “watchful waiting.” It would give children a chance to outgrow their excess pounds before being treated. Research conducted since then shows that's not effective. 

“The risk of watching and waiting, in my experience, is that a 10-pound-overweight child a year later might be 30 pounds overweight,” says Fishman. “That's a lot harder to tackle.”

In the new guidelines, the AAP stresses the urgency of treating children with overweight and obesity as soon as it's diagnosed. Instead of hoping a growth spurt might take care of the problem, pediatricians should move quickly, “at the highest level of intensity appropriate for and available to the child.”

By guiding children and their families to adopt healthier habits early, it may help to reduce some of the weight-related health issues that have also increased in the last few decades. Just within the 21st century, diabetes rates for children and teenagers have skyrocketed -- between 2001 and 2017, the number of kids with type 2 went up an astonishing 95%.

“Now we understand the consequences of untreated obesity, especially severe obesity,” says Mary Ellen Vajravelu, MD, a doctor-scientist at the Center for Pediatric Research in Obesity and Metabolism in Pittsburgh. “That includes type 2 diabetes, fatty liver disease, high blood pressure, high cholesterol. It's important to treat obesity in childhood to avoid the complications we're seeing in young adults.”

Also important: Reversing the trend while a child is young can help them avoid the emotional impact of growing up with obesity.

“I saw the recommendations and thought, 'How different would my life have been for the past 35 years if they had treated my obesity when I was a child?” says Heather, the mother of a 10-year-old in Florida. She's been limiting herself since childhood, for instance by avoiding activities where her size might prove embarrassing. “For kids who are struggling, I think it'll be life-changing.”

What the Guidelines Really Say

In a world where fat-shaming is rampant, parents often want to protect their children by encouraging them to lose weight -- but parental pressure adds another layer of bad feelings. The AAP advises against putting a child on a diet or restricting their access to food without professional help. Guidelines recommend that pediatricians:

  • Treat obesity as a chronic disease. That calls for long-term care strategies and ongoing monitoring.

  • Implement a model known as the “medical home.” It takes treatment beyond the exam room to shape behavior and lifestyle changes. Pediatricians should build partnerships with families in their care and serve as a care coordinator, working with a team that may include obesity treatment specialists, dietitians, psychologists, nurses, exercise specialists, and social workers.

  • Use a patient-centered counseling style called motivational interviewing.  Rather than a doctor prescribing changes for a child's family to figure out, the process guides families to identify which behaviors to adjust based on their own priorities and goals -- that might mean cutting back on sugary drinks or walking together after dinner. Research has shown it takes less than 5 hours of motivational interviewing with a pediatrician or dietitian to help bring down BMI.

  • Opt for an approach called intensive health behavior and lifestyle treatment  (IHBLT) whenever feasible. As the name suggests, it's an intense treatment that calls for at least 26 hours of face-to-face, family counseling on nutrition and exercise over a period of 3 to 12 months. More sessions produce larger reductions in BMI, with 52 hours or more over the same duration having the greatest impact. Unfortunately this treatment program isn't available everywhere, and for many families the time and financial demands put it out of reach.

  • Offer approved weight loss drugs  to adolescents  12 years and older who have obesity. Medication should always be used together with nutrition and exercise therapies.

  • Refer adolescents 13 and up with severe obesity for possible weight loss surgery.  That referral should be to a surgical center with experience in working with adolescents and their families, where the teen would undergo a thorough screening process.

Medication and Surgery

Those last two recommendations have garnered most of the headlines, and it's understandable. Medicating a child -- or performing an operation that would permanently change their body -- might seem extreme. But the research shows that for children with obesity and severe obesity, these treatments work.

“This isn't for a kid who's a little overweight,” says Fishman. “It's obesity that's limiting this child's ability to function. When we face something this disabling, we want to attack it from every direction we can.”

Right now, only a handful of medications are approved to treat obesity in adolescents. Some are taken orally, while others, like the recently approved Wegovy, are injected.

Jill, the New Jersey mom, is using Wegovy herself.

“The fact that I've had success with it makes me more comfortable about approaching it as an option for my son,” she says. “And ultimately, it's his choice. If he wants to see if he can just do things differently first, we'll try that. A nutritionist's guidance will be part of this for him regardless, so he can understand what's involved. It's not like he'll get the shot and all of a sudden magic happens.”

Losing weight with medication can help remove some of the shame that often comes with obesity. Heather, the Florida mom, is also using an injectable drug.

“It's all the morality stuff like, if you had more self-control, if you worked harder and really tried, if you just made the choice,” she says. “This pulls all the morality out of it. Obesity is a medical condition. It's so clear. In the same way I take thyroxin because my thyroid doesn't work well, this makes my insulin receptors work properly.”

For kids 13 and older with severe obesity -- a BMI over 35, or 120% of the 95th percentile for age and sex -- metabolic or bariatric surgery may be recommended. Of course, surgery is much more invasive than medication, with a greater risk of complications. The guidelines acknowledge this and stress the need for thorough screening before proceeding.

“The pediatrician would refer a child for evaluation. They wouldn't say, 'You definitely need to have surgery,'” Hampl says. “They'd say, 'As your pediatrician, I feel that you would benefit from a comprehensive evaluation at a pediatric bariatric surgical center.' These types of centers do a very thorough pre-op evaluation over at least 6 months, and then careful monitoring is done for years afterward.”

Weight loss surgery for adolescents does have certain drawbacks. Any surgery has the risk of complications, and some surgical patients do gain back a significant amount of weight. Some research suggests that adolescents who have the surgery are more likely to have alcohol problems later in life.

Even with those risks, for some teens surgery may prove life-saving.

“We know much more about the complications of obesity in adults, we know those are devastating,” says Hampl. “If we can prevent heart attacks, stroke, sleep apnea, diabetes, and other really serious medical complications, that in itself is a huge benefit to the person's health.”

The Question of Equity

The guidelines point out that obesity has inequities baked into the condition. Risk factors increase depending on your economic status and your race. Access to treatment is lopsided. Some of the most effective treatments, like intensive health behavior and lifestyle treatment, aren't available everywhere. Providers may not be in-network or even accept insurance. 

If the family of a child with overweight can't access effective programs to help them build healthy habits, the child's odds for developing obesity grow. As they get older and their BMI reaches the level of obesity or severe obesity, treatments like medication and surgery become an option. But they're even more costly, which leaves many families with no help at all.

That's why the guidelines also include policy recommendations aimed at covering comprehensive obesity prevention, evaluation, and treatment. They call attention to the ways unhealthy food is marketed, the effects of limited resources on a community, how socioeconomic and immigration status factor in, and the challenges posed by food insecurity.

“We hope the guidelines will serve as impetus to help improve access to care for all children with obesity,” Hampl says. “That includes everything from infrastructure and policy to systems change as well.”

For parents who struggle to help their children with overweight and obesity, having such an authoritative resource can pave the way to getting real help.

“It's good that they issued these guidelines. I'm hoping, for my son and all the kids out there who are struggling, that it will help to have it recognized as something worthy of clinical, medical management,” Jill says. “It's validating.”

© 2023 WebMD, LLC.


 

Supplement Smarts: Best Ways to Take Different Vitamins

Make Food Your Plan A



With hundreds of supplements available, it’s hard to believe that not every nutrient in whole foods has been captured in a capsule. That’s why eating a variety of healthy foods is the best way to meet your health needs. But if you’re low on a certain vitamin or mineral, or just want to cover all bases with a daily MVM (multivitamin/mineral), these tips will help you get the most from it.



Timing Your Multi



You can take your MVM any time you’d like. Your body absorbs some of its vitamins better with food, so you may want to take it with a meal or a snack. You’ll also avoid the upset stomach that you can get when you take it on an empty stomach. Not a breakfast person? Have it with lunch or even dinner.



When to Take Water-Soluble Vitamins



Water dissolves them, and your body doesn’t store them, so most must be taken every day. They include C and the B’s: thiamin (B1), riboflavin (B2), niacin (B3), pantothenic acid (B5), pyridoxine (B6), biotin (B7), folic acid (B9), and cobalamin (B12). Take them with or without food, with one exception: You’ll absorb B12 better with a meal. If you also use vitamin C, put 2 hours between them. Vitamin C can keep your body from using B12.



When to Take Fat-Soluble Vitamins



Vitamins A, D, E, and K need to go with fat from a meal for your body to absorb and use them. But you don’t need a lot of fat -- or any saturated fat. The healthy plant-based kind you find in foods like avocado or nuts will do just fine.



If You Take Iron Supplements



You absorb iron best on an empty stomach. Take it with water or, better yet, a citrus juice: Iron and vitamin C have a tag-team effect. If it makes you queasy, save it for right after a meal. But don’t mix it with calcium or high-calcium foods -- these interfere with iron. You won’t take in either one fully. Men and postmenopausal women should skip supplements with this mineral unless a doctor says otherwise. The average MVM has more than you need.



If You Take Mineral Supplements



Large doses of minerals can compete with each other to be absorbed. Don’t use calcium, zinc, or magnesium supplements at the same time. Also, these three minerals are easier on your tummy when you take them with food, so if your doctor recommends them, have them at different meals or snacks. Don’t take any individual mineral at the same time as an MVM or an antioxidant vitamin formula, like one with beta-carotene and lycopene.



If You Take Vitamin A



Watch the amount of what’s called preformed vitamin A. If you’re pregnant, doses over 10,000 IU a day can cause birth defects. High levels of both A and the usually safe beta-carotene (a substance that the body coverts to vitamin A) may raise your chances of having lung cancer if you’re a smoker, and maybe even if you’re a former smoker.



Prenatal Vitamins and Morning Sickness



Extra folic acid and iron are very important for a healthy baby. They can be found in most prenatal vitamins. But some prenatal vitamins can make nausea worse, mostly because of the iron. If this happens to you, pair your prenatal vitamins with a light snack before you go to bed. Talk to your doctor about the best prenatal formula for you.



Supplements and Your Prescriptions



Even essential nutrients can interfere with many common medications. If you take a traditional blood thinner like warfarin, just the small amount of vitamin K in an MVM can cut its strength. Taking more than 1,000 mg of vitamin E per day can raise your risk for bleeding. And if you take thyroid medication, taking calcium, magnesium, or iron within 4 hours can cut its strength. Ask your doctor about how best to time it.



The Alphabet of Amounts



RDA (recommended daily allowance) is the daily amount of a nutrient you should get, based on sex and age. DV (daily value) is the percentage of a nutrient that a supplement or food serving adds to the average daily diet for all ages. UL (upper limit) is the most of a nutrient you should get in a day. Side effects from big doses range from tiredness or diarrhea to kidney stones or organ damage.



Know What’s Inside



There’s no one standard MVM formula. Some have more nutrients than recommended. Others may come up short on some RDAs. For instance, the amount of calcium you need to meet the RDA is too much to fit into a tablet that you could easily swallow. Scan the full ingredients list so you know exactly what’s in the supplement you’re considering. This will also help you know if you need to time when you take it.



Personalize Your Formula



Another way to get more of the nutrients you need is to shop for formulas geared to your age and sex. For example, many vitamins for seniors have more calcium and vitamins D and B12 than younger people need. As you get older, your body doesn’t do as good a job of absorbing B12. Women in particular often need extra calcium and vitamin D after menopause to protect bones. Men’s formulas leave out the iron.



Are Gummies Any Good?



Opinions about gummy vitamins are mixed. One study found that people who take vitamin D in gummy form get more from it than from a tablet. On the other hand, gummies can have a lot of sugar and calories. And because they taste like candy, it’s easy to go overboard and eat too many. They may even cause cavities. Also, not all brands contain all essential vitamins and minerals. Some may not even contain the amounts listed on the label.



Look for Quality Checks



Since the FDA doesn’t regulate supplements, look for brands that have been “verified” by one of the three companies that test supplements in the U.S.: Pharmacopeia, Consumer Lab, or NSF International. These testing organizations verify that what’s on the label is in the bottle in the right amounts.



Keep a Supplement Diary



If you keep a log, it can help you time out different supplements and keep track of how much you take every day. The National Institute of Health’s Office of Dietary Supplements has a form called "My Dietary Supplement and Medicine Record" that you can print out and fill in. Bring it with you, along with your medication list, when you go to doctor visits.



 

How to Stay Safe from a Tripledemic this Holiday Season

Written by Lisa O’Mary



Dec. 14, 2022 – This time last year, the hunt was on for at-home COVID-19 test kits, which for many became the golden ticket to attend holiday gatherings. This year, a tripledemic is raging, with threats from COVID-19, influenza, and respiratory syncytial virus, or RSV.

Considering the circulating viruses, medical experts recommend doing your own risk assessment based on your holiday plans and the people impacted by them.

"Everyone is obviously ready to do as much as they can that they have done in normal holiday periods, especially as many of us have given it up for a couple years," Emory University epidemiologist and healthy travel expert Henry Wu, MD, told NPR. "We're entering a new normal, where we have to navigate how best to do what we want to do."

As people look at their disease risks before the holidays, experts say to ask:

  • How willing am I to get sick?

  • What risks are there for other guests who will be at the gathering? Are they elderly, an infant, or someone who's immunocompromised, putting them at high risk of becoming dangerously sick?

  • Is seeing certain people or attending certain events a priority for me?

Limiting the number of gatherings or travel is one way to manage risk, as is testing for COVID-19 in advance, Wu said.

"Every family and every individual is going to be a little different," he said. "If you would like to do as much as you can to avoid getting sick when you're getting together, if you want to protect the vulnerable person, whether they're elderly or an infant, then definitely incorporate some of the lessons from the last few years.”







Truth About Flu Shots

Experts say getting a flu shot is one of the best weapons against seasonal influenza.


Data shows that the tripledemic is in full swing. Among people getting tested for the flu, 1 in 4 are positive, and nearly 26,000 are being hospitalized weekly.

On the RSV front, there are positive signs. Weekly case counts of RSV have dropped by more than half in the past week, according to CDC data.

Nearly 80% of hospital beds nationwide are full, a  federal tracker shows. Of those, 6% are in use for COVID-19, a drastic change from the previous 2 years when the coronavirus was the singular topic of holiday health talk.

Still, health officials say COVID-19 is not to be underestimated. Case counts, deaths, and hospitalizations are surging post-Thanksgiving.

Look Out for a Sore Throat

Newly published data now shows the top-reported COVID-19 symptom is a sore throat. Once a telltale sign of COVID, loss of taste has entirely fallen off the  top 10 reported symptoms list, while loss of sense of smell has fallen to tenth place. Fever is also notably absent from the results, published by the U.K.’s Zoe Health Study, which is an app-based crowd-sourced symptom tracker.

Study authors say the change in common symptoms comes from the rise of new virus variants.

Here are the most commonly reported COVID-19 symptoms, in order of how common they were, for the month prior to Dec. 5:

  • A sore throat

  • A runny nose

  • A blocked nose

  • Sneezing

  • A cough without phlegm

  • A headache

  • A cough with phlegm

  • A hoarse voice

  • Muscle aches and pains

  • An altered sense of smell

The CDC says COVID-19 symptoms appear 2 to 14 days after exposure. People who have symptoms should test for COVID-19. The agency also warns that some COVID-19 symptoms are the same as flu symptoms, and it’s best to talk to a health care provider about being tested for both viruses.



© 2022 WebMD, LLC.

 

How to Start Running

Make Sure You’re Ready



You’re more likely to hurt yourself if you haven’t been very active lately, so take it slow, even if you feel great. If you’re over 50 and haven’t done regular exercise in a while, or you have a long-term condition like diabetes or heart disease, talk with your doctor before you start to run.



Test Your Fitness Level



You may have some idea of how fit you are, but it’s good to have numbers to compare as you go. Take your pulse right before and after you walk a mile. Do the same for a 1.5-mile run (if you feel fit enough), and time it. About 6 weeks in to your running routine, check those numbers again -- they can tell you something about how far you’ve come.



Set a Goal



It’s hard to get somewhere if you don’t know where you’re going. Do you want to finish a 5K race? Lose weight? Improve your health? Decide what you want to do so you can make the right plan to help get you there. And remember to measure your distance, weight, blood pressure -- whatever’s linked to your goal -- so you can track your progress. It'll help keep you motivated.



Plan It Out



Whatever your goal, a good plan will help you get there safely. It should tell you where to start, how quickly to add to your mileage, when to rest, and how to keep from getting hurt -- and it should do this on a day-by-day basis. Find a training schedule that works for you, or check with your doctor or a licensed exercise professional if you’re not sure where to start.



Start Easy



If you need to work your way up, you can start by walking and begin to run gradually, as you feel comfortable. A good goal is to get at least 150 minutes a week of “moderate aerobic activity,” like walking, or 75 minutes of “vigorous aerobic activity,” like running. Spread those minutes out over the course of a week.



Warm Up



This eases you into your run and may help prevent injury and keep your muscles from being sore. If you’re going for a fast walk, walk slowly for 5 to 10 minutes first. If you’re going for a run, start with a brisk walk or slow jog.



Listen to Your Body



If you get dizzy, feel sick, or can’t catch your breath, stop -- you’re probably overdoing it. Be flexible with your schedule as you get started. Take a couple of days off to get your strength back if you need to.



Cool Down



This lets your heart rate and blood pressure ease back into their normal ranges after your run. You do it the same way you warmed up: Slow down and go for another 5 to 10 minutes.



Stretch

When you run, your muscles get tighter. These exercises can help keep your joints loose and get more blood to those areas. Stretch major muscles after your run, not before: Be gentle, breathe freely, and try to hold each one around 30 seconds. A running guide or exercise professional can help with the right moves for you.



Rest



It’s natural to kick off your new hobby with enthusiasm, but don’t overdo it. In addition to starting slow, you also need to make sure you give your body a break. That can keep you from getting injured and burning out. In fact, “rest days” can be as important as “run days” for your health and for boosting your speed and distance. They give your body a chance to recover and get stronger.



Make It a Habit



Habits can be hard to shake. Some happen when you’re not thinking about them -- if you mindlessly pick up a doughnut with your morning coffee, for example. But you can create them too. First you need a cue -- an alarm on your phone, maybe -- that tells your brain you’re about to run. Then you follow it instantly with a reward, like a cup of coffee or a TV show. After a few weeks, your daily run may become a hard habit to break.



Make It Social



You’re less likely to cancel your workout if you make plans to meet a buddy or a group. It’s more fun, too -- as you get used to the pace, you should be able to chat easily. A little friendly competition with people at your level also can help you stick to your new routine.



 

How to Start a Walking Program

 

Why Walk?



All you need are your two legs. You don't have to get special equipment or a gym membership or even a partner, though walking with a friend has some benefits. Walking can help you lose body fat and improve your joint health, circulation, bone density, sleep cycle, blood pressure, and mood.



Set Goals



Make sure your goal is realistic when you first start. If 20 minutes every day leaves you exhausted and sore, try 10 minutes on alternate days. Raise it by 2 to 5 minutes each week as you build up your fitness. Once you hit your goal for minutes per session, then you can start to add more days. After that, if you want a more challenging workout, increase your speed or find a route with more hills.



Put It on the Schedule



Are you an early riser who wakes up ready to move? Plan your walk first thing in the morning. If evenings are better, write down the time on your calendar and let others know you're busy. Better yet, make a regular appointment with a friend so it's harder to skip. If you plan to walk to work, set your schedule so you get to the job on time. Remember, you might need a few minutes to cool down or change clothes once you get there.



Get Going!



It doesn't take much to improve your health with walking. About 150 minutes a week should do it. That's about 30 minutes a day, 5 days a week. If you need to start with way less than that, don't worry. Even 5 minutes a day is better than none. If you want to do more than 30 minutes, great! Just work up to it slowly and talk to your doctor if you have an illness or don't know if you're healthy enough for exercise.



Walk With Others



It's a good chance to connect with friends and loved ones. Every walk then has the potential to turn into a pleasant social occasion. Plus, you're less likely to cancel when someone's made specific plans to spend time with you. If you can find a willing partner, you might try a regular date to meet up for a walk -- daily, weekly, or whatever works best for the two of you.



Fido Can Help



If your walking buddy has four legs and lots of fur, that's OK, too! Dogs can be especially helpful. People who own them and take them for regular walks are more likely to hit minimum goals like 150 minutes a week of moderate exercise. Plus, how can you resist those pleading, puppy-dog, "It's-time-for-a-walk" eyes when you're lying on the couch?



Get the Right Shoes



What makes a good walking shoe? Decent padding, material that "breathes," water resistance, and flexibility from heel to toe are part of it. But the most important thing is fit. Your shoes should be loose enough so that you can wiggle your toes with ease, but snug enough to keep your foot from sliding around. If they rub and form calluses or corns, they're too tight.



All the Right Stuff



Your clothes should be loose, comfortable, and breathable. If it's cold, you might try layers you can remove as you get warmer. You'll need rain gear if the weather looks iffy, as well as a hat, sunglasses, and sunscreen to protect you from the sun -- in winter, too. Your cell phone, a useful way to track distance, might also need rain protection. Charge it up before your walk in case you need it for a map or an emergency.



Weave Walking Into Your Day



Think about the places you often go, like the coffee shop, post office, or the hardware store. Then think to yourself: Could I walk? If it's far, maybe you could walk to the subway or bus stop. Park at the far end of the grocery store parking lot. Another idea: Plan a "walking meeting" at work instead of a sitting one. If you pay attention, there are lots of places to work some extra steps into your day.



Make an Alternate Plan



There are many reasons to skip a walk, like bad weather, a long workday, or low energy. But if you make exercise a priority, you're more likely find a way to fit it in. No time to walk before work today? Get out on your lunch break instead. Too rainy or cold to walk outside? Try walking at the local mall. Did your friend cancel? Go solo. And if you miss a day, have a plan to make up for it over the course of the week.



Keep Track



There are all kinds of gadgets and apps that can tell you how far you go each day in steps or miles. Some might even tell you how many calories you've burned. An app on your phone might be the easiest to use, but there are other small digital devices that do the same thing, and even a mechanical one called a pedometer that counts steps.



Drink Water



You sweat more when you exercise, which means you lose water more quickly. When water levels get too low (dehydration) you might feel tired, nauseated, dizzy, or confused. You might not notice the sweat you lose if the air is cool. Top off your tank with a couple of extra cups in the hours before you head out for a walk. Consider bringing some with you if it's really hot outside or you're going a long way.



14 Things No One Tells You about Aging

Lots of Know-How



They’re called the golden years for a reason. Getting older has its perks. For one, you’re good at using what you’ve learned. This is called crystallized intelligence, and it keeps getting better, even when you’re 65 or 70.



Mr. Nice Guy



Turns out you might not be a grumpy old man (or woman), after all. You’ll probably get more agreeable as you age, at least through your 60s. You’re also likely to be happier and less inclined to get angry. Scientists haven’t figured out exactly why this happens, but they do have some theories. Older people might control their emotions better, and focus more on how to make the most of life.



Play Well With Others



You’re more in tune with other people’s emotions in your 40s than at any other time in your life. That insight into how others think and feel can make living with your loved ones easier and help you get along better with your coworkers, too.



Better Sex



Older women may have sex less often than when they were younger, but apparently they make it count. In a study of women 40 and over, researchers found that sexual satisfaction improved with age. Women over 80 were more likely than those between 55 and 79 to say they were satisfied during sex.



A Taste for Life



As you age, medications, illness (colds, flu, gum diseases, etc.) and allergies all can change your sense of smell and taste. And that can affect your diet and health. If you find things need to be spiced up, try some olive oil, herbs like rosemary and thyme, garlic, onion, peppers, or mustard. Just stay away from the salt.



What's That Doing There?



Around the time the hair on your head starts to disappear, it can show up in the strangest places. This can mean large hairs in older guys' noses and ears. Older women may notice small hairs on their chins. This is all caused by changes in our hormones.



Rise And Shine



There’s a good chance you’ll become the morning person you’ve always wanted to be -- in your 60s. Our sleeping patterns can shift as we age, so we get sleepier earlier and wake up earlier. That seems to work out well. One study showed that even though folks over 65 tend to wake up during the night, most said they regularly get a good night’s sleep.



Bye-Bye Migraines



Once you hit your 70s, those migraines you may have had much of your life may go away. Only 10% of women and 5% of men over 70 still report migraines. Even better news: If you do have a migraine, it may not actually come with the headache. As people age, some may experience migraines as visual or sensory disturbances without pain.



Don't Quit Your Day Job



Early retirement might not be the best thing for your health -- unless you have a fun second career. A study called the Longevity Project found that people who work hard at a job they enjoy live the longest. That, along with good friends and a good marriage, could be the key to sticking around a while.



Fear Is Not Your Friend



You may worry more about breaking bones as you age. One study found that about a third of adults over 65 have that fear. And it’s understandable, because falls are the leading cause of injuries for older people.



Self-Confidence



Self-esteem soars as you age, studies show, and increases with wealth, education, good health, and employment. But it takes a dip after 60. That may be because people begin to have health issues and start searching for a new sense of purpose following retirement. With increasing life spans, healthier lifestyles, and working to an older age, we may see that change.



Less Stress



Baby boomers and older adults report less stress than their younger counterparts, according to the American Psychological Association’s annual Stress in America report. That doesn’t mean, it goes away. Health and money problems still crop up. But, the APA says, 9 of 10 older adults say they’re doing enough to manage it.



Weight of the World



The longer you’re alive, the more gravity brings you down. The spaces between the bones in your spine -- called vertebrae -- get closer together. That can make you about an inch shorter as you get older.



Strength in Numbers



The graying of America may be a good thing for you. Those 60 and over tend to cast ballots more than any other age group. And they’re the fastest-growing block of voters in the U.S. these days. That means more voting power on topics that matter as you age such as Medicare, Social Security, and health care



 

12 Tips for Better Sex

 

Why a Good Sex Life Is Healthy



Sex isn't just fun. It's good for you too. Every orgasm releases a flood of the hormone oxytocin, which improves your mood. Regular rolls in the hay could improve your heart health, reduce stress and depression, improve your self-esteem, and help you sleep better. Snuggling together underneath the sheets also makes you feel closer to your partner and enhances your sense of intimacy.



Communicate With Your Partner



Couples who talk to each other about their wants and desires have better sex and a healthier relationship, research finds. Tell your partner what you like and don't like. Share your most intimate fantasies and desires. If you're too bashful to say those private thoughts out loud, write them down in a story or a journal entry for your partner to read.



Try Something Different



Spice up your sex life by stretching your boundaries as a couple. Play around with foreplay. Touch each other in new ways. Try out different sex positions to see which ones feel best. Dress up in costumes and play as characters (nurse-doctor, cowboys). Move from the bed to the floor, the bathroom, or the kitchen counter. Watch a dirty movie together. Bring sex toys like a vibrator, anal beads, or feathers into the mix.



Schedule Time for Intimacy



No matter how much you might want to have sex, your busy schedule can get in the way. So pencil sexy time into your calendar, just like you would other important dates. Then you'll be less likely to skip it. Setting a date gives you time to prepare and something to look forward to. Book sex as often as is realistic -- whether it's once a week or every other day. Choose times when you know you won't be tired or distracted.



Exercise



Working out boosts stamina in bed and puts you in the mood. Exercise also creates a more toned body, which improves self-esteem and makes you feel sexier. It's not clear how much exercise you need to improve your sex life. Start with the standard recommendations -- 150 minutes of aerobic activity and two days of strength training a week.



Take Your Time



No matter how busy you are, sex is one part of your day that you shouldn't rush. Don't skimp on the foreplay. Those extra minutes that you spend touching and kissing each other help get you aroused and make sex more pleasurable. When you slow down, you also get more time to spend with your partner. That's good for your relationship overall.



Use Lubrication



Women's bodies naturally make their own lubricant, but sometimes it's in short supply. Hormonal changes around the time of menopause can cause vaginal dryness that makes for painful sex. A water-based lubricant is safest to use with condoms. But, silicone-based lubes are less irritating for anal sex.



Be Affectionate



Not every romantic encounter has to end in sex. You and your partner can find pleasure in many other ways. Take a bath together or give each other a sensual massage. Have a hot make-out session on the couch. Bring each other to orgasm through masturbation. Teach each other how you like to be touched. Or just cuddle.



Relax



Sex is a potent stress reliever, but it's hard to get in the mood when you're all keyed up. After a tough day, do something calming together to relax you. Listen to soft music. Practice relaxation exercises such as deep breathing or meditation. Research shows that mindfulness meditation helps women get more in tune with their bodies during sex.



Do Kegels

Kegels strengthen the pelvic floor muscles that support your bladder. They also relax the vagina to make sex more comfortable, improve blood flow down there, and make it easier to reach orgasm. To do these simple exercises, just tighten and relax the muscles you use to hold in pee. And they're not just for women. Men who practice Kegel exercises have better erections and more intense orgasms.



Plan an Overnight Getaway



Sometimes all you need to rev up your sex life is a change of scenery. Take a trip together. You don't have to go far, but certain settings -- like the ocean or mountains -- are ideal for rekindling romance. Turn off your cell phones and focus on each other. For an extra spark, pretend that you've just started dating -- or that you're strangers who've met up for a forbidden tryst.



See Your Doctor



Sometimes the solution to better sex is in your medicine chest. Some drugs, such as antidepressants and blood pressure medicines, can reduce your desire. The problem could also be a medical condition like heart disease, vaginal dryness, multiple sclerosis, or depression. Schedule a check-up to find out whether a health issue might be affecting your sex life. Be honest with your doctor about the problem, so you can find the right answer.



Talk to a Sex Therapist



A sex therapist is the person to see if something is bothering you in the bedroom. Therapists are licensed psychologists or social workers who can address problems such as a lack of desire, trouble getting an erection, or problems reaching orgasm. You can meet with a therapist alone or together with your partner.

10 Diet Mistakes and How to Avoid The

 

These Errors Can Affect Your Weight



If your favorite pair of jeans won't fit, the scale seems stuck, or your weight drops off only to bounce back up, there's a chance you could be making one of these 10 weight loss mistakes.



1. Relying on Crash Diets



Determined to lose 10 pounds fast, you turn to a crash diet. Perhaps your plan calls for nothing but grapefruit or cabbage soup each day. You slash your daily calories to fewer than 1,000, and sure enough, the pounds melt away. But when you eat so few calories, you train your metabolism to slow down. Once the diet is over, you have a body that burns calories more slowly, and you usually regain the weight.



2. Skipping Breakfast



Skipping breakfast seems like a simple way to cut calories, but it can make you hungry the rest of the day. This may lead to unplanned snacking at work and eating a supersized portion at lunch, making calorie counts soar. But breakfasts that are high in protein and fiber can curb hunger throughout the day. In fact, studies show people who eat breakfast every morning are more likely to maintain a healthy weight.



3. Losing Track of Your Snacks



Maybe you count calories at every meal, but what about all those nibbles in between? There's the bag of pretzels at your desk, the little slice of cake at a party, the taste of your son's ice cream cone. All of this mindless munching adds up and could sabotage an otherwise well-planned diet. If you're serious about counting calories, you may want to use your smartphone or a notebook to keep track of each bite.



4. Not Snacking at All



While mindless snacking can pad your waistline, thoughtful snacking may do just the opposite. People who eat several small meals and snacks a day are more likely to control hunger and lose weight. Snacking helps keep your metabolism in high gear, especially if the snacks are protein-rich. Having a few nuts is a good, high-protein choice, and research suggests people who snack on nuts tend to be slimmer than those who don't.



5. Loading Up on Low-Fat



Low-fat products can play an important role in your diet. Just remember that low-fat isn't the same as low-calorie, and it's not a license to take second and third helpings. If you pile your plate with low-fat cake, you may end up eating more calories than if you had a smaller slice of regular cake. The best way to know how much fat, sugar, and calories you're getting is to check the nutritional label.



6. Sipping Too Many Calories



When counting calories, many of us tend to overlook what's in our drinks. This is a big mistake when you consider that some fancy coffees and alcoholic beverages have more than 500 calories. Even the calories in fruit juice and soda can add up quickly.



7. Drinking Too Little Water



This is one of the simplest diet mistakes to fix. Water is essential for burning calories. If you let yourself get dehydrated, your metabolism drags, and that means slower weight loss. So try adding a glass of water to every meal and snack.



8. Ditching Dairy



Full-fat milk, cheese, and ice cream are taboo for many dieters, but ditching dairy foods may be counterproductive. Some research suggests the body burns more fat when it gets enough calcium and produces more fat when it's calcium-deprived. Calcium supplements do not appear to yield the same benefits, so dairy may have other things going for it, too. Stick to nonfat or low-fat dairy options.



9. Going Drive-Thru Too Often



The drive-thru is convenient after a hectic day, and you can always order the salad or other healthier option. But once you're there, can you resist that milkshake or other treat? And if you allow yourself the ease of fast food once, it could become a habit. According to one long-term study, people who ate fast food more than twice a week gained 10 more pounds than those who had it less than once a week.



10. Setting Unrealistic Goals



Telling yourself you'll lose 20 pounds your first week is probably setting yourself up for failure. If you know you won't be able to do it, you may never start your diet in the first place. If you diet and lose 5 pounds in a week, instead of celebrating, you may feel discouraged that you didn't reach your goal. A realistic goal is vital to successful dieting. If you're not sure what your goal should be, talk to a dietitian.